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December is Grief Awareness Month

Grief Awareness: A Guide for Seniors, Families, and Caregivers

Grief is a universal experience that affects everyone differently, but it can be especially complex for seniors, their families, and caregivers. Understanding grief and its impact can help individuals navigate the journey toward healing. This guide explores the nature of grief, its various forms, and practical ways to cope, emphasizing the importance of support systems and professional assistance.


Understanding Grief

Grief is a natural and multifaceted response to loss. It can manifest through a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, guilt, and even relief. While grief is often associated with the death of a loved one, it can also arise from other life changes, such as losing a job, a home, or one's health.


Key points to consider about grief:

  • Individual Experience: No two grief journeys are the same. Each person's response to loss is shaped by their personality, life experiences, cultural background, and the nature of the loss.
  • Emotional Complexity: Grief can be overwhelming and unpredictable, often involving a mix of emotional, physical, and cognitive reactions.

Recognizing grief as a normal, albeit painful, part of life is crucial in beginning the healing process.


Types of Grief

Grief can take many forms, and understanding these can help individuals and their support networks provide appropriate care and compassion.

  1. Anticipatory Grief
    Occurs before a loss, such as when a loved one is diagnosed with a      terminal illness. This type of grief allows for preparation but can still      be profoundly painful.
  2. Complicated Grief
    In some cases, grief may become prolonged and debilitating. Those      experiencing complicated grief may struggle to resume daily life or accept      the loss even after a significant amount of time.
  3. Disenfranchised Grief
    This refers to grief that society doesn't fully acknowledge or validate,      such as the loss of a pet, a miscarriage, or the end of a non-traditional relationship. Individuals may feel isolated in their mourning.

Stages of Grief

The Kübler-Ross model outlines five stages of grief, offering a framework for understanding common emotions during the grieving process:

  • Denial: An initial shock and disbelief about the loss.
  • Anger: Feelings of frustration, helplessness, or injustice.
  • Bargaining: Attempting to negotiate or reverse the loss through "what if"      thinking.
  • Depression: Deep sadness, withdrawal, and a sense of hopelessness.
  • Acceptance: Coming to terms with the reality of the loss.

It's essential to note that these stages are not linear. Individuals may move back and forth between stages or experience them in a different order.


Coping Mechanisms

Coping with grief involves finding strategies that promote emotional and physical well-being. Here are practical tips:

  • Stay Connected: Sharing your feelings with trusted family or friends can alleviate feelings of isolation.
  • Express Yourself: Journaling, creative arts, or talking to a counselor can provide outlets for processing emotions.
  • Maintain Routine: Daily routines create a sense of stability and normalcy.
  • Engage in Hobbies: Activities that bring joy or relaxation, such as      gardening, knitting, or reading, can offer solace.

Support Systems

A strong support system is invaluable during the grieving process. Whether it's family, friends, or a community group, having people to lean on provides emotional comfort and practical assistance.

  • Family and Friends: They can help with daily tasks, offer companionship, or simply listen.
  • Community Groups: Churches, senior centers, or grief support groups can foster connections with others who understand what you're going through.

Professional Help

Sometimes, grief can feel too heavy to bear alone. Professional support, such as therapy or counseling, offers a safe space to explore your emotions and develop coping strategies. Support groups can also provide validation and solidarity by connecting you with others facing similar challenges.


Grief in Seniors

For seniors, grief often intersects with other life transitions, amplifying its impact. Common challenges include:

  • Multiple Losses: Seniors may grieve the loss of peers, spouses, and even their independence.
  • Physical Decline: Grief can exacerbate health issues, leading to a cycle of emotional and physical strain.
  • Social Isolation: Losing social connections can deepen feelings of      loneliness.

Understanding these unique factors helps caregivers and families provide tailored support.


Grief and Health

Grief can manifest physically, affecting overall health. To counteract its toll:

  • Exercise: Regular physical activity improves mood and boosts energy.
  • Balanced Diet: Nutritious meals support physical and mental health.
  • Rest: Prioritizing sleep helps the body recover and manage stress.
  • Medical Guidance: Consult a healthcare provider if grief leads to significant changes in health or chronic issues.

Helping Others

If you're supporting a grieving senior, patience and empathy are key. Here are some ways to help:

  • Be Present: Sometimes, your presence speaks louder than words.
  • Listen: Provide a judgment-free space for them to share memories and feelings.
  • Encourage Engagement: Help them reconnect with hobbies or social activities.
  • Practice Patience: Grieving is a gradual process, and each person's timeline is unique.

Resources

In Redmond, several resources are available for those dealing with grief:

  • Hospice of Redmond: Offers specialized bereavement support.
  • Local Support Groups: Join others in shared experiences of loss.
  • Online Tools: Websites like GriefShare provide information, forums, and virtual support.

Grief is a deeply personal journey that requires time, patience, and support. By recognizing its many forms, seeking help, and embracing coping strategies, healing becomes attainable. Remember, you are not alone, and help is always available. 

Talks at the Senior Center

December 6: Sydney Francis

Sydney Francis, a Professional Counselor Associate with expertise in grief, anxiety, and life transitions, will share her personal and professional experiences. Her talk will focus on the impacts of grief and offer practical coping tools to navigate the journey toward healing.


December 11: Dawn Jackson

As an Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist and author, Dawn Jackson helps individuals transform their lives by healing their hearts and rediscovering joy. In her session, she’ll guide attendees through the emotional landscape of grief, offering insights and strategies for mind, body, and spirit wellness.


December 18: St. Charles Medical Center

Representatives from St. Charles Medical Center will lead a session on grief awareness, focusing on the intersection of grief and health. Their talk will highlight the importance of recognizing grief’s impact on physical and mental well-being and provide guidance on seeking appropriate care and support.

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GRIEF AWARENESS RESOURCES

Here is a comprehensive list of national and local resources available to the senior community in Redmond, Oregon, for grief support and information:

National Resources


GriefShare

Description: Offers a 13-week program providing support and healing for those grieving the loss of a loved one.

Website: www.griefshare.org

Phone: 800-395-5755


The Compassionate Friends

Description: Provides support to families after the death of a child, offering understanding and hope.

Website: www.compassionatefriends.org

Phone: 877-969-0010


National Alliance for Children’s Grief (NACG)

Description: Supports children and teens coping with loss, offering resources and programs.

Website: www.nacg.org

Phone: 866-432-1542


988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

Description: Provides 24/7, free, and confidential support for people in distress, prevention, and crisis resources.

Website: 988lifeline.org

Phone: 988



Local Resources in Redmond, Oregon


Hospice of Redmond

Description: Offers bereavement support groups and counseling services for individuals and families experiencing loss.

Website: www.hospiceofredmond.org

Phone: 541-548-7483


Partners In Care

Description: Provides hospice, home health, and palliative care services, including grief support groups and counseling.

Website: www.partnersbend.org

Phone: 541-382-5882


Redmond Community Church

Description: Hosts GriefShare support groups to help individuals find healing after the loss of a loved one.

Website: www.redmondcc.org

Phone: 541-923-3023


Highland Baptist Church

Description: Offers GriefShare programs providing support and guidance through the grieving process.

Website: www.hbcredmond.org

Phone: 541-548-4161


Deschutes County Health Services

Description: Provides mental health services, including crisis intervention and counseling for grief and loss.

Website: www.deschutes.org

Phone: 541-322-7500


Central Oregon Grief Counseling

Description: Offers individual and group therapy sessions for those dealing with grief and loss.

Website: www.centraloregongriefcounseling.com

Phone: 541-728-0637

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